answers 0:is it certain that if you have sex with a peron that has hiv or aids you will get it the reason i am asking this is because my gf and i have been together for ages she was homeless for a while when she was just 13 years of age she really had a **** life and eventually while on the streets she became involved with drugs and prostitution to live and she got hiv anyway since she met me i made her better i gave her a home money food and love you name it well i love her too peices i would die for her ...Show moreanswers 1:if you had sex unprotected, your chances of contracting the virus are good to excellent. regardless of how you feel about her, you should always use protection, and if she hasnt been tested i would first ask "why the hell not?!" and then tell her to get her butt to a free clinic (and you of course should do the same). she would need to start treatment ! asap if she tested positiveanswers 2:If your willing to die for her than keep having unprotected sex!answers 3:HIV (virus that can lead to AIDS) is not transmitted 100% of the time, so it is possible that you could have unprotected sex with an infected person and not get HIV yourself. HOWEVER, it is also possible that you could be infected by having sex with an infected person only ONCE.answers 4:Providing protection is used correctly and remains in tact then it wont be transmitted. Unprotected transmission rates are actually considered surprisingly low, experts believe approx 1% chance of transmission a single episode of vaginal sex, between 1% and 3% for anal sex. Based on the 'male' (inserter). A bit higher for the recipient.However a number of variables can increase and decrease these figues such as viral load of the infected person (this will be lower if her virus is under control through medication, reducing the chance of transmission), circumcision, etc!Obviousl! y this is still a huge gamble which can be avoided by correct ! use of a condom, but should that fail odds are still in your favor.WHY NOT SPEAK TO A SPECIALIST ABOUT IT IN ORDER TO ENSURE YOU TAKE ALL THE PRECAUTIONS YOU CAN.The sites I have sourced, both recognised as been hugely reputable in this field provide a wealth of info on this very matter....answers 5:IF YOU ARE PRECAUTIOUS, AND USE PROTECTION, LIKE A CONDOM FOR INTERCOURSE, YOU PROBABLY WON'T GET HIV/AIDS, BUT YOU GOT TO BE CAREFUL. ALSO IF YOU GO DOWN ON HER, A DENTAL DAMN, ISN'T A BAD IDEA. YOUR GOAL, IS TO NOT EXCHANGE BODILY FLUIDS SUCH AS BLOOD ETC. ( SALIVA IS THE EXCEPTION)answers 6:Listen to Ira.answers 7:Your question doesn't list specific risks you have taken. You can have unprotected sex and its just a matter of time before you get HIV of course. I know a few couples or married couples where one is HIV and the other is HIV- the term is called a Serodiscordant Couple. If those previous mentioned couples use protection and practice universal precautions everyday th! en most generally the negative person in the relationship will not become HIV that is until that one time you decide not to use protection. There is nothing wrong with this relationship but you have to ask yourself are you willing to take unnecessary risks....answers 8:Since heterosexual transmission male to female is 1/1000 unprotected and 1/8000 female to male unprotected the chances aren't that high. Lymphadenopathy and Viremia is all you will develop following HIV infection if you abstain from risk behaviour.
Wednesday, 12 August 2020
Tuesday, 11 August 2020
Cómo realizar la Triforce Shard Quest en The Legend of Zelda: The Wind Waker
Después de vencer al Templo del Viento, pero antes de llegar a enfrentarse a Ganondorf, primero tienes que ir en una búsqueda lateral especial para restaurar la Trifuerza. Es una larga búsqueda lateral, y aprenderás a hacerlo aquÃ.
Navegar a A-6, Diamond Steppe Island. Usa el Hookshot en las palmeras para subir al acantilado superior, y entra en el agujero allÃ.
Tirar por el agujero entre dos antorchas. Para cada piso, derrotar a los enemigos, y luego ir por el agujero. Haga esto durante 30 pisos, y en el piso 30, vaya al sÃmbolo del viento y juegue el Réquiem del Viento para hacer que aparezca un cofre del tesoro. Abre el cofre del tesoro para obtener la Tabla de Triforce #6 (GameCube)/Triforce Shard #6 (Wii U).
Navega a D-7, arrecife d! e dos ojos.  Encontrarás un rayo de luz que brilla fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #8.
Derrota a los enemigos en las cuatro habitaciones para abrir la puerta con el sÃmbolo de la Triforce encima. Pasa por la puerta, donde encontrarás un sÃmbolo de viento. Juega el Réquiem del Viento para que aparezca un cofre del tesoro y ábrelo para obtener la Tabla de Triforce #8 (GameCube)/Triforce Shard #8 (Wii U).
Ve adentro y sube hasta el sÃmbolo del viento. Juega el Réquiem del Viento para hacer que aparezca un cofre, luego abre el cofre para encontrar la Tabla de Trifuerzas #3 (#2 en Wind Waker HD).
Volar la nave vigilando la entrada con tu cañón.
Navega a G-5, Bird’s Peak Rock. Usa una Pera Hyoi para tomar el control de una gaviota.
Recorre el laberinto hasta que encuentres una habitación con un sÃmbolo de viento. Juega el Réquiem del Viento para que aparezca un cofre y ábre! lo para encontrar la Tabla de Trifuerzas #2 (GameCube)/Triforc! e Shard #2 (Wii U).
Vaya a la ubicación correspondiente a la fase de la luna. Encontrarás el Barco Fantasma allÃ; entra en él.
Derrota a los enemigos en las cuatro habitaciones y, a continuación, derrota a los Darknuts en la habitación central para abrir la puerta con el SÃmbolo Triforce encima. Pasa por la puerta, donde encontrarás un sÃmbolo de viento. Juega el Réquiem del Viento para que aparezca un cofre del tesoro y ábrelo para obtener la Tabla de Triforce nº 7 (GameCube)/Triforce Shard nº 7 (Wii U).
Ve adentro y sube hasta el sÃmbolo del viento. Juega el Réquiem del Viento para hacer que aparezca un cofre, luego abre el cofre para encontrar la Tabla de Trifuerzas #1.
Derrota a los enemigos que están dentro y abre el cofre que parece tener la Triforce Chart #4 (GameCube)/Triforce Shard #4 (Wii U).
Vaya a Outset Island y suba por el sendero de la montaña. Párate en la roca de la meseta a la derecha, cambia la dirección de! l viento hacia el oeste usando el Réquiem del Viento, y usa la Hoja de Deku para flotar hacia el acantilado con una gran cabeza de piedra. Levanta la cabeza de piedra y tÃrala para revelar un agujero, y entra en él.
Navega a G-6, Cliff Plateau Isles.  Encontrarás un rayo de luz que brilla fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #5.
Vela a B-5, Islote de Acero. Allà encontrará una fortaleza con varios cañoneros. Si quieres más rupias, puedes volar estas naves por 50 rupias cada una.
Utiliza los calderos, que hay que hacer en cierto orden, para atravesar la cueva hasta llegar a un cofre del tesoro. Abre este cofre del tesoro para conseguir la Carta de los Barcos Fantasmas. Tenga en cuenta que si usted toma un caldero equivocado, será enviado de vuelta al principio.
Navega a C-5, Stone Watcher Island. Encontrarás un rayo de luz brillando fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre ! del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #3.
(Nota: estos dos pasos! siguientes son para la versión para GameCube. No los sigas si estás jugando al remake de la Wii U, ya que en el remake encontrarás la Triforce Shard en el Laberinto Salvaje). Ve a Tingle Island y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Tabla de Triforce.
Navega a F-1, Islas de las Siete Estrellas.  Encontrarás un rayo de luz brillando fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #7.
Navega a A-5, Isla Needle Point. Destruye el cañón dorado con tu cañón, para que aparezca un cÃrculo de luz. Usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene la Tabla de Triforce nº 5 (nº 3 en la versión para Wii U).
(Nota: estos dos pasos siguientes son para la versión para GameCube. No los sigas si estás jugando al remake de la Wii U, ya que el remake incluye el Triforce Shard en el Oasis Privado) Ve a Tingle Island y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Tabla de Triforce.
(Nota: estos dos pasos siguie! ntes son para la versión para GameCube. No los sigas si estás jugando al remake de la Wii U, ya que el remake incluye el Triforce Shard en el Ghost Ship) Ve a Tingle Island y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Triforce Chart.
Ve al B-7, Outset Island.  Encontrarás un rayo de luz brillando fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #4.
Navega a C-3, Tingle Island. Páguele a Tingle para que traduzca la Carta Triforce.
Ve a la Isla Tingle y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Carta de Triforce.
Navega a G-1, Overlook Island. Usa el Hookshot en las palmeras hasta que llegues al último acantilado, y entra en el hoyo.
Navega a B-4, Isla Greatfish. Encontrarás un rayo de luz brillando fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #1.
Espera hasta la noche, y nota la fase de la luna. La ubicación del barco fantasma depende de la fase de la luna.! Las ubicaciones son las siguientes, empezando por la luna llena y sigu! iendo el sentido de las agujas del reloj en el mapa:
(Nota: estos dos pasos siguientes son para la versión para GameCube. No los sigas si estás jugando al remake de la Wii U, ya que en el remake tienes la Triforce Shard de Overlook Island). Ve a Tingle Island y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Triforce Chart.
Déle a la Sra. Marie 20 Joy Pendants. Ella te dará la escritura de la cabaña.
Juega al escondite con las Abejas Asesinas. Después de encontrar a los 5, obtendrás un pedazo de corazón. Luego, hable con la Sra. Marie para conseguir una Rupia Púrpura.
Navegar a la isla Stone Watcher. Levante la cabeza de piedra para revelar un agujero, y entre en él.
(Nota: estos dos pasos siguientes son para la versión para GameCube. No los sigas si estás jugando al remake de la Wii U, ya que en el remake se obtiene el Triforce Shard de Stone Watcher Island) Ve a Tingle Island y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Tabla de Triforce.
Navega! a D-1, Gale Island.  Encontrarás un rayo de luz que brilla fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #2.
Navega a E-5, Oasis Privado. Muestre la escritura de la cabaña en la puerta del edificio para tener acceso a ella.
Utilice el gancho de agarre en el interruptor del techo para apagar el fuego de la chimenea, y luego entre en el agujero de la chimenea.
Navega a la D-5, Isla Triángulo Sur.  Encontrarás un rayo de luz brillando fuera del agua; usa la grúa para pescar en el cofre del tesoro que contiene Triforce Shard #6.
Ve a la Isla Tingle y paga a Tingle para que traduzca la Carta de Triforce.
Usa la gaviota para golpear los interruptores de cristal. Ten cuidado con los Kargoroks; serÃa una buena idea matarlos con flechas como Link antes de hacer esto. Pulsando todos los interruptores de cristal se abrirá una puerta en la isla.
Why do you get so many quacks in mental health services?
Freeman Rutkin: Yes, they are a patients` and a psychotherapist`s nightmare unleashed.....but there is wheat amidst the chaff; try to realise the system is not geared for people who think for themselves or it would be an outright free-for-all.LOL.
Oren Eskelsen: The good people in the field are there, but the incompetant ones do more damage than you could imagine. Problem is, the stigma of 'mental illness' keeps people from reporting the true quacks, and worse, allows these fools to blow thru any complaint based on patient history. I know of one psychiatrist whose bizarre and incompetant behavior is widely known by his patients, almost 100 %whom are on SSD or are awaiting it. When I had a breakdown a few years ago, I QUITE stupidly went to the clinic run by this goofball. I accepted I'd need to be 'interviewed' by this man. I know the routine: clerical worker interview, pychiatric eval for meds and therapist referral. What a joke. I had 3 clerical 'interviews'-the! most detailed one the worker gave me IN THE WAITING ROOM (the one asking verbally for my SS # and medical history). Ahem-why did the patient have to point out the ethical dilemna to a clinic worker?My initial meeting with the chief quack went like this-I kid you not-HIM: Why are you here? ME: Im depressed and want short term meds and therapy. HIM: (rolling his eyes) What makes YOU expert enough to know that? ME: Ive had recurring depression for 30 years, I can tell when Im depressed. HIM: So, you have a degree now? How do YOU know its depression?ME: Im...depressed, I feel numb, a friend died and my sadness is interfering with my ability to do ANYTHING. HIM: But what makes you qualified to believe its DEPRESSION? ME (thinking) You know, maybe you're right. What do YOU think it is? HIM: How should I know? You tell ME! I had two more med appts with this psychiatrist, both of which he had a collegue sit in while they exchanged smirks to everything Id say.When I asked for a the! rapist at the clinic I was told to do it on my own. When I did! that, I was refused because I did not have a referal. When I gave the doc paperwork for medical leave, he asked me how do I fill it out? Turns out the clinic was at the time being investigated for gross negligance over 2 deaths. The paper reported that the clinic had diverted something like millions of $ into secret accounts for a private school downstate. The state tried to revoke its licence but was unsucessful. The head psychiatrist still has his job there. Yourr and mine taxpayer dollars at 'work', eh?...Show more
Marion Wieboldt: @ Jesere: Im not in an institution or whacked. IF you have nothing to contribute but some trollish BS, then just leave
Jade Ohno: When you have insurance you get to see a psychiatrist. ($__$)When your on medicare, you get to see a therapist. (¢__¢)
Idell Mulliniks: You seem a bit too "touchy" with Jesere and the reasonable aspect of his/her question to the effect:-In what institution/s did you make your alleged "observat! ion"/(s). So, if you've made actual observations of "the whole mental health service", it was a reasonable question.But to answer your question, since I have had some experiences in/with my "mental health system", in Canada, in relation to a legal proceeding where 2 different Crown prosecutors, on 2 separate occasions, insisted that I required a psychiatric assessment to determine my "fitness" or "unfitness" to stand trial. On both occasions their requested "psych assessment" orders were granted --- the 1st time on an "outpatient basis" for 30 days and the 2nd time [about 1.5 months later] on an incarcerated inpatient basis for 30 days.Personally, I didn't find that mental health service workers were "quacks" in general. To the contrary, most were both reasonable and professional --- which doesn't mitigate your criticisms at all. Many, if not most of your criticisms are valid and accurate, with more complex reasons than just "blame the workers" for the problems you not! e.I found that 1 psychiatric resident was a gullible and legally ignora! nt person who knew a reasonable amount of medicine, less psychiatry and almost nothing about law. He knew how to "bow" in the direction of the Bench, when entering a court. And he made equivocal "psychiatric findings" in accordance with what Crown prosecutors directed/instructed him to "find". By "equivocal" I mean his psychiatric "findings" from 1 short interview at Court, were "may have" this or that problem which could just as likely mean "may not have" it as well (equi - vocal; maybe yes; maybe no.) e.g. "KB may have persecutory delusions, since he seems to think everyone is against him." So on that basis I was ordered to take a psychiatric assessment and report to Forensic Assessment outpatient services, which amused me because everyone who came to my "legal trial" was AGAINST me. But their disclosed evidence was contradictory and both myself and the "Crown" knew it.I began my "assessment" with a 1st PHILOSOPHICAL REPORT to such experts ---encountering a charte! red psychologist to whom I presented my 1st report, knowing that I was presumed both sane and innocent by the "forensic" (legal-medical) system. One of your points was proved by him. He took a copy of the "Court's" order to have me assessed but refused to take a copy of my 1st "philosophical report". He, thereby proved that he'd rather hear "Court Orders" than what patients write as "reports" about policemen, court clerks, prosecutors and judges. So the legally ignorant psych resident (different guy) was "on a witness stand", making provably false statements, related to "questions of law", before either he or a real psychiatrist had read my first report.My 2nd "philosophical report" to the "forensic" people detailed the resident's legal ignorance in terms of both Canadian Statutes and the psychology of the "Major Socratics", primarily Aristotle's and Aquinas's brand of psychology, which share's some points with Freudian "analytic". That 2nd report in concert with the 1! st seemed to "tongue tie" them, because after I served them my 2nd repo! rt, no one called me to attend for an actual "assessment". So "the Crown" had to think up another illegal/irrelevant request, AFTER the psychiatrists DISOBEYED the 1st Court order!Being lawyers, they got the inpatient assessment order as well. So I was incarcerated as an inpatient for 30 days and "discovered" that: (1) Most patients were "faking mental health problems" to either "beat" or "mitigate" their legal problems. Hence the majority (not all) of patients were lying to their "care givers". (2) Some, perhaps most, of the doctors were "taken in" by the lying. When I had my final "psych interview" one of the doctors said he had not read all of my "philosophical reports" and the other doctor proved by his quizzical look that he hadn't read any of them. The arguably "lying" doctor did not lie. He had read the first 2 reports, but not the 3rd, because that was addressed to his "Chief" thanking them for not saying anything derogatory about my "mental health" on the d! ay they had been ordered to say something about it. So the basic problems are:- (1) Lying or confused patients, (2) inconsistent philosophical theories of the psyche/soul/mind which become inconsistent "psychologies" and (3) ulterior motives for suggesting, implying or asserting "mental issues" by so-called "corollaries" [i.e. neither doctors, nor patients --- in my case, they were prosecutors, policemen, court clerks and 2 judges who'd "goofed" on certain legal procedures]. In one word, "lying" for different reasons causes confusion.Kevin...Show more
Monday, 10 August 2020
how to become a top contributor?
Stevie Goldey: I don't think they ever said exactly how many best answers you need in a category to be a "top contributor." I suspect it varies from category to category depending on how popular the category is. Just pick a category that you're good in and answer A LOT of questions in that category and you, too, can be a "top contributor." Don’t believe people when they say “just answer 50 answers in 30 days†or stuff like that. Yahoo keeps it deliberately vague so they never promised an exact figure to anyone. It may, as I said, vary from category to category. However, I have a rough idea of how long it takes to become a top contributor because a friend of mine made it after she answered all her questions in only one (1) category for a month in order to earn that badge. She doesn’t log on as often as I do so that only amounted to about 85 answers but she made it. She had a 30% “best answer rating.â€It’s been said somewhere here on Yahoo that you need at lea! st 10% of those answers to be “best answers.†It may take weeks of answering a lot in a category so be patient, Rome wasn't built in a day. While I made it to “Top Contributor†in two weeks of answering regularly in certain categories, I do log on every single day. It’s harder to make it to Top Contributor if you only log in now and then or, when you log in, you don’t answer a ton of questions.Just remember, concentrate your energies on ONE sub-category. Don’t answer all categories say, in Health, but concentrate on Alternative Health or Women’s Health or Men’s Health or Diet and Fitness. PICK ONE SPECIFIC CATEGORY AND STICK WITH IT! The biggest mistake most people make is they spread themselves too thin....Show more
Roxane Leathers: okay so there are like tons of Redundant questions on this site where the Asker doesn't come back and select a best answer. take advantage of that situation:♪ do a search of related questions♪ answer one of them - co! py your answer ♪ refer back to your search results and (Past! e) use that answer with as many questions you can answer accordingly♪ search for a new listing of questions - repeat cycle until you have relinquished your answering privileges for that day.â†' vote your answers as best when they become in voting mode....Show more
Perry Deshazior: To be a top contributor you need to be knowledgeable in up to thee category's. the exact formula is kept secret by yahoo but the common theory is that you need a minimum of 10% best answers in each particular category and is said to be reviewed weekly. the top contributor badge is not permanent and can be removed at any time.So choose the category's you feel you can get best answer and research every detail you can find with links to add to the answer and do not answer questions you don't think you can get you best answer (it will lower your percentage of best answers).http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-d8pH0dcoRKeB12yOcnU......Show more
Comment célébrer l’amitié sur Facebook
Vérifiez si vous avez un message de célébration de Facebook. Facebook peut également vous faire savoir quand vous avez atteint un nouveau point de référence excitant avec vos amis Facebook. Ces messages apparaîtront également en haut de votre fil d’actualité. Pour l’instant, vous seul pouvez voir ces célébrations. Mais si vous voulez les partager, faites une capture d’écran et postez une photo !
Filtrez vos souvenirs si vous le souhaitez. Parfois, Facebook peut accidentellement célébrer des moments que vous préférez oublier. Ce jour vous donne l’option d’exclure certaines personnes et dates de la fonctionnalité. Il vous suffit de cliquer sur « Préférences » une fois que vous êtes sur la page Ce jour-là et de sélectionner les personnes et/ou les dates que vous ne voulez pas que Facebook commémore.
Partagez! un récapitulatif des souvenirs compilés par Facebook. En haut de votre flux, vous verrez peut-être de temps en temps que Facebook a rassemblé une collection de souvenirs du mois, de l’année ou de la saison précédente. Ces collections comprennent généralement des photos que vous avez publiées ou dans lesquelles vous avez été tagué. Chaque récapitulatif de la mémoire comprend une option à partager en bas du message.
Rafraîchissez votre fil d’actualités chaque jour. La plupart des fonctions de la rubrique Ce jour-là et d’autres récapitulatifs de mémoire apparaîtront dans votre fil d’actualité. Pour ne pas manquer une occasion de célébrer une amitié, vérifiez votre alimentation une fois par jour.
Partagez une vidéo d’anniversaire le jour où vous êtes devenus amis sur Facebook. Occasionnellement, On This Day vous dira que vous êtes devenu ami sur Facebook avec quelqu’un à cette date il y a un certain nombre d’années. Lo! rsque cela se produit, Facebook peut faire une vidéo compilan! t des exemples de votre interaction et de votre amitié avec Facebook. Ce post est extra spécial, et vous devriez le partager pour montrer à votre ami à quel point vous êtes excité par votre amitié !
Visualisez vos souvenirs de la journée et sélectionnez-en un à partager. Ce jour-là , vous trouverez une liste d’exemples de vos activités sur Facebook à partir de cette date depuis que vous êtes devenu un utilisateur de Facebook. Au bas de la page, vous verrez aussi d’autres souvenirs que Facebook pense que vous pourriez apprécier. Recherchez un bouton « Partager » au bas de chaque message. Vous pouvez ensuite décider avec qui vous souhaitez partager le contenu.
Restez au courant des nouvelles fonctionnalités de Facebook. Facebook trouve constamment de nouvelles façons de célébrer votre amitié en utilisant son site ou son application. Ce jour n’a que 2 ans ! Pour être sûr que vous restez à jour, Google « nouvelles fonctionnalités ! Facebook » tous les mois environ.
Cliquez sur « Ce jour-là  » à gauche de votre écran. Cette journée est répertoriée sous l’onglet « Explorez » du site. Ça devrait être à peu près à la moitié de votre écran.
Accédez à votre fil d’actualités sur votre ordinateur ou votre appareil. Connectez-vous à Facebook avec votre nom d’utilisateur et votre mot de passe. L’ouverture d’une session devrait automatiquement vous permettre d’accéder à votre fil d’actualité. Vous pouvez également cliquer sur « Accueil » ou sur le logo Facebook dans la barre supérieure du site Facebook.
Sunday, 9 August 2020
Health care for beginners?
Giovanni Malool: Health care and health insurance are two different things. Health care is medical providers treating you for whatever ails you, and health insurance helps you pay for the treatment.There are hundreds of books and websites on both subjects. Google the terms and start reading.
My husband wants to join the army...there are no jobs around here. What are the pros Â
answers 0:My husband would like to go to the Army...my concerns are taking my oldest daughter somewhere that she can't see her father(my husband is not her father) and being alone in some different state all by myself. Please if you have experience with this give me some advice. Thank you! Are there any good websites for talking to other Army wives??answers 1:Here are a couple of websites with some resources and info that might help. http://www.militaryonesource.com and http://www.marriedtothearmy.com The military can ba a though life but there are also a lot of benefits that come with it.answers 2:Many of us in this section have served or are serving in the Army and other branches. Naturally we will be biased. Hopefully we will all be biased in a positive manner. We chose to serve our country for many reasons and all of them ar! e good. That shouldn't be in dispute. But the main point is that we chose to join and many have made careers out of it. That speaks a lot to the type of life you have in the Army. I have served 24 years and have earned three degrees while serving. I have traveled around the world and brought my children with me almost every step of the way. They benefited greatly by seeing so much of the world. Your daughter being separated from her biological father could be difficult for her, but there are benefits to consider. Your husband can not only learn new skills and acquire many benefits while he is in service, but you also can use certain military benefits to improve yourself and possibly make yourself more attractive to future employers....answers 3:The Good outweighs the Bad. The Pro's to joining the Army is: Healthcare, Dental, Steady Paycheck that does increase every year most of the time, Army Retirement which is one of the best in the US, Free College and the GI Bill (Colle! ge Money) is now transferable to Children like your daughter.T! he Cons are: Yes he may deploy. Yes you may not see him for 2 weeks because of some Army BS Training. That's about the only cons I have.. LolI have been an Army Wife for only 3 years but I love this life and I love knowing our bills are paid every month and that we have a beautiful home and food on the table. My Mother is a Nurse, which is supposedly one of the safest jobs to have in the Civilian world, she is top of the line, awards and all, masters degree and even she is scared for her job right now. So you just have to weigh your options. If he does the Army and hates it after his first "term" then he can get out and try to do something else... I'll post some sites for you....answers 4:Guaranteed pay check, and benefits, housing for your family, and free utilities if it's base housing. Yes, you may move to be with him, and have to move your daughter away from her dad. But, you don't have to. He will get BEQ money for his family, to help you with rent and utilities where! ver you are. He will most likely be sent overseas right away, which could be a good thing for you and your daughter, because you can go with him to most places, and experience a different culture. If he is sent to Iraq or Afghanistan you can not go, but he will make a good deal more money. Of course that puts him in the war, and war is war. You would have to make friends or be alone. Side effects of not going with him. Women in the Army are pretty free with whom they sleep with married or not. Know this from first hand experience unfortunately. Which is why I'm going through a divorce. My soon to be ex is in the Army. Also foreign women are always looking to hook up with American GI's so they have a chance to come to the US, so it's fairly easy for him to meet women. Military life can be tough especially for kids if you move around a lot. But, it can also be good, because you experience different walks of life. The Army recruiter should be able to give you some ideas on how! to contact other Army wives. If he is going he might consider the Air ! Force, since the likely hood of staying state side at one base for entire carrier is pretty good. I was a Marine, and went to Korea, Japan, and California. My Dad was a Marine to start, then went in the Air Force and retired after 30 years at one base in Missouri. Never was away from home more then a couple of weeks a year....answers 5:experts and Cons of being interior the army from a Six 3 hundred and sixty 5 days army Vet. Now serving interior the army... experts: Seeing the worldwide, assembly new human beings, serving your country, army paying off college expenses, sea accountability pay. As an officer you will get a stateroom kinda like a mini lodge room you share with another officer. you get extra powerful uniforms then enlisted and extra powerful treatment additionally. Cons: particular in each activity that has to do with the protection stress or protection stress affiliated jobs you have a threat of death yet, i seem at it this way. i might extremely die understa! nding that i became into doing a great provider to my country then die of unintentional dying, drug overdose or etc.... particular in line with what field you % to grow to be you may get caught out to sea for an fantastically long term away out of your female chum make beneficial she totally is able to dealing with the stresses of on an regular basis existence devoid of you there for ethical help. additionally like somebody mentioned until now me communicate on your recruiters approximately this convey your g/f mothers and fathers, ie... everyone else. examine your settlement from cover to cover. have confidence me you will thank your self interior the long-term and finally get each thing you're "assured" in writing. SPC McDonald, Aaron-John P u . s . a . military "Proud To Serve" Lab Techs paved the way All Day!!!...answers 6:You should be discussing this with your daughter's father and your daughter depending on her age. You won't ever be alone, unless you want to be. The! Army family is very supportive and really works hard to make new famil! ies feel welcome. It goes beyond being in a different state though, you could end up in a different country. Take your time and discuss all of the possibilities then decide what's best for everyone involved. I spent 4 years in the Army 20 years ago. All of my time after basic training was spent in Europe....answers 7:PROS-steady paycheckhousing (or BAH if not on base)military insurancelife insurancepride for ones countrychance to see the US/worldCONS-having your husband gone for long periods of timenot seeing family as muchI am a Marine wife and I am very proud of my husband and everything that he has accomplished. He is my hero and I have so much respect for him. We have never had another life besides the military. (We got married at 18)When your husband deploys, if you didn't want to stay in a different state by yourself, you could move back and stay with family or rent a place near your family. (BAH would cover your rent) Your daughter might not get to see her father as ! much, that is a tough one. Maybe you wouldn't be stationed too far away from your hometown.Being a military wife is tough, but it is well worth it. You realize how much time you have taken for granted with your spouse when he is not there everyday and it makes you so much stronger and more bonded together. You learn to cherish all the time that you have together while most people take it for granted.Good luck with your and your husbands choices ahead.Good websites for military spouses are:militaryonesource.commilitaryspouse.commilitary.comwww.ExperienceProject.com/ArmyWivearmywives.com...